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The woman named Spares criticized the social media culture that exerts pressure on couples to feign joy in order to preserve their image before an online audience.
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She admitted to being in love but chose to maintain privacy, thinking that genuine love flourishes out of the spotlight.
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Her straightforward warning regarding public relationships ignited a wave of responses from her audience.
Well-known urban entrepreneur Damaris Muriithi, often referred to as Dama wa Spares, has ignited controversy following her distribution of dating guidance.
Why does Dama believe relationships should remain confidential?
In a daring Facebook post, the soon-to-be parent—who is presently in a discreet romance—urged individuals to maintain privacy regarding their personal matters, emphasizing that genuine love flourishes out of the public eye.
She contended that the necessity to uphold shared objectives online frequently compels individuals to pretend they’re happy, which can sometimes come at the expense of their mental health.
“Dama penned that social media adoration will guide you until you learn to silently cherish one another without feeling compelled to prove anything on platforms like TikTok and Facebook. Let my affection grow in seclusion,” she expressed.
The female executive, formerly associated with a high-profile love triangle featuring Bishop Ben Kiengei, didn’t hold back when cautioning about the possible negative effects of exposing personal relationships publicly.
As she points out, numerous individuals perform in front of unknown audiences online but secretly grapple with intense emotional challenges.
“As long as it’s public here, you will pretend until it leads you to your final resting place. Eventually, you’ll understand that genuine love thrives outside the public eye without the need for validation from others. Will you still chase couple goals publicly while secretly dealing with more serious issues than just an ambulance?” she remarked.
Her starkly truthful perspective resonated deeply with numerous fans who connected strongly with her message.
Others commended her for addressing the truth with an audience that frequently mistakes likes and comments as real affirmation in personal connections.
Dama’s message arrives as numerous public figures and influencers are being questioned about their unsuccessful relationships.
See her post below:
Below are remarks from internet users who engaged with her post:
Symo Kama:
Wow! Acha kusema ni kweli huku unaumia.
Elizah Arphaxard:
nailed it right there, sweetgal. I’m afraid of stories and social media like hot soup; leave alone even wanting to dip below the waters.
Lizz Wangui Muchiri:
Recently I haven’t been seeing much of my friend and how much I miss him? We both know he’s your typical tall, dark, and handsome type.
Mamake Boaz Gutu:
Oh yes, I agree with you completely. Privacy is powerful; people don’t assault what they can’t comprehend. If you provide them legal footing, prepare yourself for constant conflicts. To those who have been granted intelligence, wisdom is anticipated.
Shiroh Waihiga:
Truly in this world things are interesting 😂😂😂… offline there’s real love; me and you, I can shout that out loud.
Winnie Gakii:
Unalala kuchapwa at night then guests arrive as you’re told not to have an attitude; remember if you get caught again, you mustn’t smile just lol lol lol. They said this when showing affection towards you.
Mercie Kamau:
It was all good until the ambulance arrived 🤣🤣🤣💔💔<LM…. What should we do now, guys?
